Last Wednesday August 22, 2012 the mother of my husband visited us after the chaos happened between my husband and his brother with his sister in law (wife of his brother). I called his mother as nanay, I ask her about why does kuya jojo (brother of my husband) acting so immature and spoiled brats after all the blessing he has. Actually, they work at the Government Institution both of them, the wife and him, with two kids of a 3years old and 1 year and 6 months. I really don't understand why should they act that way after the goodness we shared to them. We love their kids as our own, as a matter of fact we feel sad when the kids feel sick. Why does they act so rude to us, we didn't do anything wrong against them and we never feel jealous on them even that I don't have stable job, I still think my life still go on and I could find a better place for me. I was so outrage at that time that I feel and want them to crush them into pieces, but my husband told me that I should not initiate myself to their fight, he told me I just keep myself vesture the quality I have as a decent and educated person as people look at me.All I wanted is to be at my husband side to suffrage and act as his supporter as a role of a wife.I talk to nanay I show her my how furious I am. I said offensive word which I could not control my emotion in order to express what I feel. Well I guess I have to calm down and let them think what they think, if they're mad will let them be. For me as long as they are not going to apologize we still in World War 3 and I'm not going to give up, I will fight to the end.
All I ever wanted to clear these all mess and accept their mistake and apologize to us. I feel sorry to my husband, his been nice and good to everything, I never imagine they did this. I told nanay that kuya jojo is a egocentric, megalomania and selfish asshole. Well I guess that life and we as a couple, we're going to move on and think of our future. Maybe this is the good time that we need to separate our self to them and let them be.
Maybe they have BIG personal or family problems. kaya medyo warfreak sila.. Be patient and try to understand them. For as long as you are happy with your lives, no one can take away your 'happiness' and 'joy' with you!
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